Ballsy: tough & courageous
“a cool, ballsy woman who could not be intimidated”
I had never considered myself as being a “ballsy” person, until I packed my bags and moved to Oklahoma.
For love. I moved for love.
Moral of the story: long distance relationships make you do crazy things, ya’ll!
I have been living in Tulsa, Oklahoma for 3 months now with my boyfriend of 4 years, and I’ve already had so many inner revelations that I wouldn’t have experienced if I had stayed situated in comfy California (it’s actually not so comfy…it’s quite expensive).
THE POINT IS – this has been good for me.
In all of my 24 years of life on this massive planet called Earth, I had never left home before. I lived in my college town 20 minutes away from my childhood home. That’s the farthest I’ve been from my parents. Ever!
I’m an only child.
“Ohhh, that explains a lot.”
Yeah. Moving on.
If you’re thinking about moving for love, here are some thoughts to consider:
1. Loneliness is a thing.
2. You will miss home.
3. Your love will be tested.
I am embracing change, but I would by lying if I said that it wasn’t a constant battle. I am ever so grateful for this love in Tulsa, and to have love waiting for me back home in California. I can’t wait for both of these worlds of mine to combine.
And they will. Patience is key.
“What matters most is how well you walk through the fire.” – Charles Bukowski
Welcome to my portfolio!
I’m a California girl currently living in Tulsa, Oklahoma.
My passions include fashion, graphic design, and modeling (aka: all things creative).
Stay around & have a look – I hope you enjoy my work!